Squeeze and flip

Sometimes you’ve got to give the other guy a turn.

There are benefits in having a thick cock but one drawback is that it can be tough to squeeze into a tight hole. Lubrication is, of course, essential. And a bit of fingering will help.

But you’re not finished when you’re through the front door. To continue the house metaphor, you have to continue along the corridor as far as you can, rush back to the front door then repeat exploring a little further each time while the corridor seems to get narrower and narrower. All the while having the homeowner shout at you that you’re not going to fit through. 

The metaphor is getting a bit tiresome so back to reality. I was on a road trip and staying the night at a hotel in a small city. The guy in my room from Grindr turned out to be from the Philippines which was a welcome surprise to me. Quite short and a bit chubby and, I soon discovered, the possessor of a tight asshole. 

After several tries, lubing up, much fingering and a range of positions attempted I was successfully ramming it in to the hilt and banging away. But every time it slipped out it was still a squeeze to get back in. And he squealed.

Eventually I took a break and asked if he preferred to top. He did and so we flipped.

He did a good job and was soon pumping a load of cum into my guts. If you have a thick cock it’s an advantage to be versatile sometimes.

Balling in Bali

Bali seems a close second to Bangkok in having a relaxed and positive attitude to sex. My second visit was only for a week but averaged a couple of hookups a day and sometimes up to four.

I never paid for sex although I know many tourists visit Bali for paid sex. I prefer guys who are motivated by horniness rather than a payoff.

Most of the guys had pretty bushy black pubic hair although one had shaved his pubes. 

The guy who shaved his pubes was the only one to use a condom. The other guys unhesitatingly went raw and loved to cum in my ass. I presume, like me, they’re all on PrEP.

Most of the guys were happy to make a video. One young guy stopped fucking me at one point to grab his phone and pose for a selfie. Another came prepared with his own tripod to get make a video with impressive shots from above.

Japanese gay bathhouse, 24 Kaikan Shinjuku, Tokyo

 

I booked my hotel just 5 minutes walk from the famous 24 Kaikan gay bathhouse. I imagined myself spending some hours there each day during my visit to Tokyo. As it happened, I got so much sex in my hotel and in the neighbourhood that I visited the bathhouse only once.

The bathhouse is integrated into a 6 storey hotel. The hotel and the gay sex dormitories are really the same thing although one can book a private room (no doubt gay sex there as well but a little more discretely). 

I had planned to visit the bathhouse on Friday night but got invited to a gang bang that evening instead. So I arrived at 7.20pm Saturday night. Once I had stripped and donned a towel for an initial exploration I headed up the stairs to the 4th floor. As I turned the corner to the corridor I was grabbed on the shoulder by a good looking Japanese guy and hustled, willingly, through a curtain to a dimly lit dormitory and drawn into a lower bunk. As expected we were straight into sucking and kissing before I motioned for the guy to fuck me. No hesitation, and soon his raw cock was sliding into my ass. Bareback, of course. Plenty of guys watching, such as the guy on the adjacent bunk and the stream of guys wandering the dormitory. The fucking went on for a very long time as it was clear the guy wanted to plant his seed but was not quite reaching a climax. He’d stop and rim me some more then start over. Eventually I called it quits as I wanted to sample other parts of the complex.

For the 4 hours I was in the bathhouse I alternated between the various dormitory rooms and the wet area. Sometimes I was topping, sometimes bottoming. With one exception, no condoms. The wet area was fun although this time I skipped the enormous hot pool. The maze was set out in a tiled lightly steamy area and included facilities such as showers. There were two proper steam rooms. The cooler one had sprinklers on the ceiling periodically spraying water on your head. This was not as pleasant as the designers probably imagined. I suspect that when installed a fine mist was generated but now it resembled a domestic shower. Once I realised how wet I was getting I tried to exit but had difficulty with the 4 guys fucking and blocking the entrance. After politely waiting a few minutes I managed to climb and squeeze my way past.

The hotter steam room was more to my taste. It was subdivided and I found a larger room with a cute lithe and tall twink positioning himself facing the wall clearly open to some ass action. I rubbed my cock against his hole and got the tip in but complete penetration was not possible due to his height, tight hole, a side wall and his failure to reposition to cooperate. So I stepped back only to have someone place their cock in my ass. I was more cooperative and ‘assumed the position’ and started getting some thrusts into my hole. The guy wanted a better arrangement so led me out of the steam room into a shower cubicle in the maze. The set up was not ideal so he took me into an alcove in the maze containing a fuck bench and continued working me there. This was a handy find as I was later to try to fuck a guy in the steam room and take him to the fuck bench to ease entry. Unfortunately, he got a shock at taking my girth and exited after the first complete entry.

Probably the highlight of my visit was a tall good looking Chinese guy who locked eyes with me in a passageway and I wordlessly followed him to the far end of a dormitory to a discreet bunk and started making out. I was taken aback when he asked if I had a condom. I had not seen that coming. I didn’t but he went down to his locker to retrieve one and soon he was thrusting his long cock in me. I found it slightly ironic that when we chatted later that he was Australian as PrEP is widely available there but it seemed to be a matter of personal preference.

I enjoyed my visit and it brought back memories of an earlier visit some years ago. Each gay bathhouse has its own slightly different character but 24 Kaikan is substantially different to most and is uniquely Japanese.

Foursome in Tokyo

The invitation to the gangbang came out of the blue.

I was visiting Tokyo and the Grindr message came from a 30 year old Japanese guy within walking distance. Things were looking good, I’m always up for group action and muti-Japanese barebacking would be fun. As always with these things it took the host a little while to finalise arrangements but 2 hours later I was walking towards the appointment.

It was quite a walk but soon I was before the huge apartment block set amongst Tokyo high-rises, hotels and parks. 

I entered the marbled atrium and messaged the host I’d arrived. He appeared but motioned for me to sit down again. The first guy had arrived and was upstairs but we need to wait for two more, that is the bottom was naked and ready upstairs and the ‘Three Tops’ were assembling. Eventually we were all seated in a row the atrium looking casual and serious to avoid getting staff attention in the vast lobby. I had time to refresh my memory of the detailed instructions we’d been sent in Japanese and I’d run through the translator.

This portion of the instructions explained that we were to keep the bottom excited but not to let him cum. Keeping his underwear on helped his excitement as did licking and pinching his nipples. On a practical note we were to strip on entering the apartment and get to work fucking the bottom who was already waiting. Once a top cums he was to dress and leave.

I should mention one minor detail that perplexed me at the time but was comprehensible later. While walking to the apartment I got as message asking about the size of my cock. I answered with a pic and heard no more:

I should pause to say I’m adding some of the apparently innocuous, even banal, administrative aspects since I find them interesting when I encounter them in others’ (sex) trip reports and I hope readers might too. As an aside, I once tried to organise a sex party and I wasn’t very successful, I’ve been trying to learn from others in case I ever try again.

While I was still removing my shoes one of the tops was already naked and caressing the bottom. I stripped off and was second on the scene and stood by the side of the first top, now being sucked, and licked the bottom’s nipples and caressed the other top’s balls. The sucking soon alternated with my cock as well which was well appreciated.

While the other guy was being sucked I reached down to finger the guy’s asshole as a kind of priming. In other contexts it’s also useful to signal a willingness to top, not necessary here where the roles of bottom and tops had been pre-allocated. My fingers met a hard object blocking his hole under his underwear which gave me serious pause for two seconds until in a lightbulb moment I realised that, of course, he was wearing a buttplug. I recalled that bottoms in gangbangs often feel the need to be ‘pre-loosened” so to speak. I withdrew my hand and said nothing, aware that the plug could not remain there for much longer.

After a very long time of sucking, which was fine for us tops although I realise how tiring it can be for the guy sucking, especially if effectively pinned in one place, the bottom moved to the next phase. I never saw him remove the buttplug - the hand is sometimes quicker than the eye. 

The first top to slip his cock into the bottom was the youngest of the three tops. He was a good looking Japanese guy of perhaps 25, smooth chested with a beautiful- to my eye - uncircumcised large cock. I was very envious of the bottom taking his long thick tool. He was a grunter too which is a skill I admire as it hots things up for the bottom and is like kind words of appreciation. I had touched his cock casually (his balls also) but not completed a study to my full satisfaction. I’d have said his cock was longer than mine and, on average, thicker although probably not as thick as mine gets at the base. He was a vigorous thruster and had good stamina continuing for a very decent length of time. There was no mistaking when he climaxed deep in our friend. In accordance with instructions it wasn’t long before this top departed.

While being fucked the bottom variously sucked and French kissed me. Both were welcome and the kissing not entirely expected. I gained the impression that a vibe was developing between the bottom and me that was absent from the third top. My imagination maybe, but I was certainly the only guy he was kissing.

A nod from our other top indicated it was my turn and I began to assume the position. Suddenly things were thrown into disarray when the bottom said something to the effect that “I don’t think I can take your big cock”. It’s not the first time I’d met this reaction, especially from Asian guys, and I reacted calmly and politely and suggested the other top take his turn which he duly did.i didn’t notice so much about his technique as with the first top except to say it was quieter, slower, less exciting to watch. And it was over quicker and the glove was thrown to me again.

I started slowly entering in the pose left by the second top, missionary. I didn’t go far or fast but was aware of the bottom’s hesitancy. The suggestion was made that I lie on my back and the bottom lower himself onto my cock. This seated position is a good way to ease novices into anal, or where there is fear of a big tool, it merits is that it puts the bottom in charge to go as slow or fast as they like, and as deep or as shallow.

In effect the approach worked and we were soon back into full stride. I never doubted this talented bottom could take it. Soon I was balls deep.by that stage the second top was gone and it was just the bottom, myself and the host.The thrusting lubricated not only by silicone but also the cum of the first two tops.

Naked at the hot springs

 

I love soaking in natural hot springs pools. It’s nothing like swimming in a pool or at the beach or even a hot tub or jacuzzi. It’s more primeval, back to nature.

It’s especially nice if you can be naked in a private pool. Alone or with a friend.

I have soaked naked in isolated natural hot springs in small streams while hiking by myself but there’s only one set of pools where I’ve often been able to hire a private pool. It’s an old fairly basic facility and very cheap. Many of the fancier places not only charge a high price for private pools but also require at least two people to share for safety reasons (in case a bather passes out). No such rule at this place and it costs little more than a hamburger for 30 minutes.

I recently had the pleasure of bringing a young Japanese friend to join me at these hot springs. He was used to being naked in onset in Japan so it was quite natural for him if more erotic for me. I first showed him around the natural springs that surround the facility - the steaming boiling stream, the mud pools and small geysers.

This visit reminded me of a long forgotten trip from more than 20 years earlier. I had been hiking in a national park 300 km from home and staying at a youth hostel. I was chatting with a cute guy, probably about 18 years old, at breakfast and we were both heading back towards my home city. I had a car. I’m not sure what his plans were but quite likely it involved hitch hiking which was more common then. I offered him a ride. We drove through an isolated area and cross a range of hills before descending to the geothermal area where the hot springs were. He wasn’t obviously prepared for swimming which was no surprise to me as my hope was to bathe naked with him anyway. I have no recollection of what happened but I remember him as very good looking and we had a good time. I’m pretty sure he was straight and had twigged to the gay vibes as he politely ended his journey 50 km short of my home city. Ah, well, nice to have company for the journey anyway.

Running a train

 

Running a train is fun.

(Not running for a train, although both can expend a lot of energy.)

Running a train essentially involves several guys lining up to fuck the same guy. It happened to me the other day at the bathhouse. I’d already topped several times and was hoping to bottom. I wasn’t disappointed.

In a semi-darkroom a cute Asian guy turned up. I immediately sank to my knees and sucked his soft cock and smooth balls. Soon he was semi-hard then with more sucking and tongue work was fully hard. I tentatively stood up and turned around to guide him to my prelubed ass. He took the hint and enthusiastically moved into position with me bent over a fuck bench. He entered and started pounding away . He was clearly enjoying it as a friend had arrived and he told him I had a great ass.i could feel his friend reaching under and fondling my balls. The young guy started speeding up and moaning and soon was loading my guts with his Asian cum. 

He pulled out and without delay his friend took over and entered me and started thrusting.i didn’t see the second or third guys. The second guy had a cock of very similar dimensions and hardness as his friend so I’m guessing he too was a young Asian guy. The third guy had a much thicker cock buy had trouble entering as he was semi-hard so I expect he was somewhat older. 

It’s a very satisfying feeling to be able to service a line of guys in this way

I’ve topped before in a train line. I attended a bareback event where an Asian bottom had volunteered to take all loads. It was held in a motel and we duly took turns to fuck him several times each before we came in him. Fun for all concerned.

Pubic hair: to trim, shave, wax or leave pubes to thrive

 

To trim or not to trim?

I don’t have strong views on whether to shave my pubes but I know that it can be a divisive issue for some guys. My partner of many years, who was very hairy, had strong views. He didn’t approve of me trimming my pubes. He said guys were trying to resemble little boys which I don’t think is true as a motivation or as a look. He also said he thought guys were trying to make their cocks look bigger but he said it didn’t work. I think he was closer to the mark here although it has never been a factor for me as I’m confident about how much cock looks size-wise. 

For me comfort, utility and aesthetics have been more important. 

In terms of comfort I can say that I started shaving my balls when I was quite young. I love the soft feel of my smooth balls. I have my balls a long time before I ever shaved my shaft or pubes. To be honest, it never occurred to me to shave my pubes. I only contemplated it when I started seeing other guys who had made the cut.

I well remember the first guy who I saw with shaved pubes. I’d gone around to his house to fuck him and saw his shaved pubes. It was a turn on but I didn’t really understand. I blurted out a question about why he’d done that. I didn’t get much of an answer beyond that he liked it. He had a bit of razor burn which gave me some pause. 

Utility caused me to start shaving the shaft of my penis as I didn’t want guys to get hair in their teeth as the deep throat me. I didn’t like that myself. It wasn’t a great leap from there to shaving the pubes entirely.

I remained completely smooth for many years. Often I’d wax rather than shave. I liked the way my smooth pubes looked and felt. Quite a number of other guys were doing it. Sometimes I’d shave around my ass as well. I worked on a reciprocity theory - I enjoy rimming smooth hairless asses so I offer mine in that form as well. I often waxed my chest as well and later started shaving my legs for an all over smooth feel.

However, I found shaving my ass physically awkward so tend to do it only for special occasions. My ass (and body generally) is naturally nearly smooth anyway with little visible hair.

More recently I’ve been tending towards limited trimming.

I decided to let my pubes all grow back as I wanted my Chinese boyfriend at the time to enjoy the exotic ginger colour which would be rare in China. I also perceived that fewer guys were now shaving their entire pubes, the fashion seemed to have shifted. I still shave my balls and shaft but just use an electric trimmer to slightly constrain the spread. Occasionally I may trim the length but not shave or remove the pubes.

My session with an Only Fans star

 

I once hooked up with someone with an Onlyfans site and, for all I know, the videos of our session may be posted there.

I don’t know how many subscribers he has but I did see his Twitter account which had more than 422,000 followers. He had a hot body and sexy manner so I can understand his popularity. He was bottom.

I was holidaying in Bangkok and he messaged me on Grindr suggesting we hook up. He made it clear he’d video the session for his Onlyfans account. He said he’d ‘mosaic’ my face. I understand that he’s Thai but spends most of his time in Japan but was back in Bangkok to video new material. 

We had a little trouble finding a suitable slot as we both had other Grindr hookups scheduled but we arranged to meet at 9pm at his cheap hotel. It was further away than I thought and in the heat I was quite worn out when I rushed over. It turned out I was the 4th guy to fuck him that afternoon. The room was tiny and quite hot and I wasn’t my best having difficulty staying hard for  a fairly staged and unromantic session. 

He had cameras set up at various angles and he sucked me and had me fuck him in various positions. It was all a bit disjointed and staged and I found his moaning both unattractive and unbelievable, but I guess some people like that in their porn. I’m glad to have tried it out but can’t say it was my best fuck of the day.

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Big cocks

 

Why are big cocks so appealing?

I’m no size queen. I enjoy sex with all manner of guys, any race, any height, hairy or smooth, yes, any cock size. Without wishing to generalise, my favourite guys are Asian, and overall they tend often to be a bit smaller in that region (though with plenty of guys disproving that impression). 

Indeed, I enjoy making small cocks hard and giving the guys with small cocks a good time. But that is for them. Big cocks are a treat for me. 

It starts with the visual appeal. My cock, though average European length, is quite thick. But I like picturing it agains big cocks like the one above. Makes my tool, with its ginger bush, look like a boy’s in comparison. That particular one makes my juices start flowing as it want to get my lips around its circumsized head.

Although the really big ones can be a mouthful like this long whopper. I don’t gag often on a cock but this one did tend to chock me. Had to concentrate on just the first 7 inches. 

It’s the thick ones that really make a mouthful. But moving to the real business of being impaled. It’s a pleasure to take the big ones in your asshole knowing lesser guys have been scared off by the length or girth. One feels like such a slut knowing you’re going to take it all. Eventually. It’ll hurt a bit, but that’s part of it. Perhaps you first need to release it after the first partial thrust to recover from the searing pain. Add a bit more lube. But you want it back in, deeper, longer. Then the regular thrusting, balls deep, is reached and you know the big boy is enjoying your body, your hole, you’re bringing the big cock and his man joy. And you take the big cock’s big cum deep within you. And you’re done.

Cock sucking

 

I like sucking cocks.

Well who doesn’t? (Actually, some guys don’t. Go figure.) 

Nothing gets me harder quicker than sucking a guy’s cock. Quicker than, say, being sucked. It’s not just the physical sensation, it is the feeling of intimacy, of service, of breaking taboos. 

My technique is successful. My late long term boyfriend taught me to overcome the gag reflex in swallowing his large cock. He was patient but wasn’t going to tolerate some young guy’s pathetic attempts around the tip of his tool. Practice, practice, practice at taking it deep down. All the work has paid off as the ability to deep throat is essential for a good cocksucker.

I admit to having limited stamina. It can be tiring sucking for too long. I try to delay the tiredness with bouts of concentrating on the tip. I also work my tongue around the tip while my mouth is sliding down the shaft.

I used to use poppers during stints at the gloryholes sucking multiple cocks. It used to give me a sudden bout of horniness where I sped up, took large cocks deeper, and was quite frenzied in my sucking. But these days I’ve laid off the amyl. The few times I take it little effect is achieved anyway. 

Decently I had a young Japanese friend stay at my house, in my bed, for two months. For some reason his libido seemed to have diminished. To give an extra thrill when would suck him during the night I would swallow his cum. I didn’t normally do this but he seemed to like it.  (Of course, it’s nice to gush down a guy’s throat rather than pull out and grab a tissue, more primeval, more natural).

I often like being sucked but I must admit that it makes a big difference if the other guy is skilled and, alas, too many guys are terrible at blow jobs. Also I only like sucking as foreplay or an adjunct to sex not the whole thing. Too many profiles on apps offer to suck me off like that’s all there is.

ATM or ass to mouth is a nice way of showing appreciation to a sex partner and extending intimacy. I do it occasionally and like guys doing it to me when I’m topping. 

One thing I’ve not tried is wearing a blindfold while sucking. I should try that soon.

Photographing sex sessions

 

It’s fun to photograph sex. 

Ten years ago I can’t imagine saying that. Well I suppose I could imagine it, although I would have been shocked at the idea of showing the pictures to anyone, much less put them on a blog. 

I love making sex videos and watching them later. Of course, I have to be careful asking my sex partners - some are so timid it might put them off fucking if they don’t like the idea. When I first started less that half the guys agreed. Most insisted I not film faces. Nowadays nearly all sex partners agree and most don’t mind me including their face. Any sign of reluctance I ask the other guy to hold the phone camera saying he can just film what he’s comfortable with.

I am dependent on the videographic skills of the top if I’m bottoming. Often they’re good with the camera but occasionally they stuff it up. Occasionally the other guy is a keen photographer and uses his camera and shares the results with me. 

I’m still experimenting with different techniques and angles but currently my preference is to just leave the phone or iPad at a fixed position. It leaves hands free and avoids distractions from the sex.