Leather chest harnesses

 I don’t have a leather fetish but do have a leather chest harness. I’m not entirely sure why I have it and have only worn it a handful of times. 

One time I wore it to an event billed as a fetish night at a sauna but found hardly anyone following the night’s theme and removed the harness after 20 minutes.

More successfully I wore it to a bears dance on a gay cruise together with a leather cap and faux leather jockstrap. I don’t consider myself a bear but it was the only event where such attire suited. It was successful in that I enjoyed dancing near naked on a crowded dance floor for an hour or so and didn’t feel out of place. However, it wasn’t successful in getting me laid. 

I’m not quite sure of the point of the modern elastic  chest harnesses. They look nice enough on the right body although such bodies would look good anyway. They would be impractical to grab. The usefulness of a leather chest harness came forcefully to me a couple of days ago in a cruise club. It was the regular naked event and I had no clothes on, just my shoes, but some guys wore jocks and, rather unusually, several pretty fit guys were wearing leather chest harnesses. I think they may have been friends as they seemed mainly to be teaming up with each other. I didn’t pay them much heed as they were much younger and more athletic than me and were sticking with the young guys. Anyway I was getting quite a bit of action anyway both topping and bottoming. After about 90 minutes I was thinking of leaving but decided to have another round of the premises and donned a cock ring leaving me rock hard and large. Almost immediately one of the hot leather strapped guys stepped into the dark room I was in, touched my cock and audibly gasped and its size and hardness. Good timing for me as it had been soft 30 seconds earlier. He dropped to his knees and sucked then arose, bent over and positioned my cock to fuck him. I put on a great performance ramming it in to the hilt so he’d feel the benefit of my girth and kept pounding away. He paused after a while, sucked me clean and bent over for more ass stretching. All the while I was grabbing the rear straps of his harness to get purchase for the deep thrusts and to bring pleasure to his chest.

Cut and uncut cocks

 I’ve never really understood guys having a strong preference for only circumsized or uncircumcised cocks - I love them both. 

I quite enjoy sucking cocks in darkened rooms, through gloryholes for instance, where you don’t know for sure what you are about to receive in your mouth. I quite enjoy the streamlined feel of a circumsized glans on my young. But on the other hand, a meaty loose foreskin gradually slipping back as an enlarging cock swells in my mouth is great as well. 

Energetic Thai

Bangkok is my favourite city for finding sex. Asian sex, naturally.

Asian sex is just like any other. Well, yes and no. For me the guys more easily get me hard; it just depends on your tastes. I like their smoothness, the contrast of their skin tone, their relaxed attitude to sex. 

And I like their energetic sexual positions. 

It takes some strength in certain leg muscles to sustain some of the positions I’ve been taken in, and they seem to hit the mark.

A week in May

It turned out to be a good week. I had no reason to expect it to.

Saturday: I idly checked out Grind. I wasn’t planning to hookup as I’d already arranged to host a couple of friends to lunch at a nearby cafe. The profile of a young Asian guy caught my attention so I sent a ‘hi’ with little expectation. He promptly replied and a friendly chat followed, nothing sexual beyond saying I’d like to hook up and getting no rebuff. On my return from lunch I resumed the chat and he was eager but needed to be picked up which I was happy to do. 

Some great sex followed even though he had wrongly put in his profile that he was a bottom when he really wanted to top. Just as well that I’m a true versatile and had cleaned up in anticipation just in case. He was very sensual with lots of kissing but eventually he topped me with him modestly sized, but good and hard, cock and bred me. 

I enjoyed his company so had him join me for the evening meal I’d already begun to prepare. While it was in the oven we went out for an hour to walk my dogs in a nearby park overlooking the city and chatted. It turned out he’d only arrived the country the previous evening with a work visa for one year. Impressive to have gotten onto the apps so fast, it’s the sort of thing I would have done. After dinner he bred me again before I dropped him back at his hote.

Sunday: I had the idea in the morning to offer to let the young Asian guy stay with me while he found an apartment. He was staying at an awful hostel in a rough part of town, 12 people to a room with no windows. I remembered when I was his age travelling overseas on a similar working holiday how accommodating gay men had let me come to their homes and sleep in their beds to save me from the hostels I was staying at and how they showed me the sites and introduced me to local gay life. I fancied performing that host and mentor role and would appreciate the sex too. I was pleased that he was keen to join me and I arranged to pick him up on Monday. 

Unusually I had arranged to take a friend visiting from out of town to lunch on Sunday too. It finished slightly earlier than I expected and so I headed out to catch the last hour of the nude Sunday afternoon session at the local cruise club. Before I went out I sent a message to one of my fuck buddies to see if he wanted me to come over and fuck him late that evening as I had the previous Sunday.After a bit of sucking and fucking at the cruise club I  went home to shower before heading out to have dinner with my mother at her apartment. 

My fuck buddy replied with I was with my mother and asked me to come instead to his friend’s apartment where we could have a threesome. This slightly caught me by surprise as my buddy was strictly bottom whereas the friend was top only. I told him I’d need to go home to clean up but he said come anyway and we’d just fuck him.

The friend turned out to have an enormous cock which was a delight but my buddy has an extremely tight asshole, I mean really tight, and I had a real job getting my thick cock in to loosen him up for an even bigger cock. However, we both managed to take turns to fuck my buddy for an hour or so then all rested. However, it was apparent that the big guy kept on going soft. So wen we resumed I indicated with a nod and a wink that he might switch between fucking my buddy and me and he was relieved to do so an my hole is more accommodating and I’ve never had a top disappointed from fucking me. A good time was had by all although none of us came.

Monday: l picked the young Asian guy on the Monday morning and he stayed with me for 8 days while looking for an apartment. On the final day he asked to be taken to the gay sauna as he’d not been to a ‘western’ bathhouse before. It is outside the week in this post, suffice to say that his young body was in great demand.

Tuesday to Friday: we slept together every night and had a great time. We didn’t fuck every night, of course he wasn’t obliged in any way. One morning I gave him a blowjob insisting he come in my mouth after which I promptly deep kissed him. We both enjoyed it and he was cut with cum smeared across his face. A snowball I believe it’s called, my first snowball. 

Yes, a good week.

Bubble butt

 Bubble butts seem to be a rarity. I don’t go looking for them but I enjoy them when I find them. It’s mainly a pleasure to look at since I’ve not noticed that they are any better or worse to fuck than others of similar size.

Urban dictionary has a good definition: “Contrary to popular belief bubble butts are not big. They are round, like a globe, usually complement a slender/slim body, they are very tight and firm unlike the ones on fat asses.” I’d echo that. 

Other comments include “a perfect butt, smooth, round and soft. Often used in a homosexual context.” That one’s not quite on the mark - perfect is in the eye of the beholder (or the top’s cock) and the butt may not be soft but firm and tight.

This picture was of a guy in Thailand although I’m not sure he was Thai. You can see he’s Asian and slim but with the bubble butt.

This guy was Vietnamese although I met him in Thailand. His ass is even more a classic bubble butt. Perfectly round and symmetrical. A pleasure to look at.

Condom as fetish

A guy in a gay sauna earlier in the week used a condom. It’s such a rare occurrence it got me thinking about the disappearing condom. Of course normally I might decline to be fucked with a condom but on this occasion I could see it would lose me the fuck - an middle-aged gentleman looking like a closeted husband shortly to return to his wife - and things were going poorly for me and I might strike out altogether that afternoon. 

He came in me but that hardly counts when wrapped up in rubber. 

It’s rare to have anyone use a condom to fuck me or ask me to use one. I’m on PrEP and I expect most guys I fuck with are too. It is so liberating to fuck bare. It is a big change from just a few years ago when everyone used condoms. Some guys still use condoms - if I had to generalise I’d say it tends to be older guys, closeted guys or Asian immigrants or visitors.

With Asians it’s not a cultural thing. I bareback with plenty of Asian guys. It just varies depending upon the availability of PrEP where they come from (including getting prescriptions, cost and whether they live with families). In Thailand and Taiwan barebacking seemed common but not so much in Japan and Bali. I know it can be difficult in China. In Bali I remember a guy starting with a condom but when I told him I didn’t need one he was happy to ditch it. Others would allow raw sex up to some point approaching climax then condoms were required. 

It’s rare for me to video sex with condoms. It may just be an assumption on my part that guys wanting condoms won’t want to be filmed. But I did get some shots of a Chinese guy fucking me with a condom then picturing it full of cum.

He was not very fluent in English giving me directions like “You put the sideways?”.

With his beautifully natural pubic hair, huge load and half unrolled condom, I find the image quite erotic, I might almost have a condom fetish (I don’t).

The other main photo I have of a condom commemorates an anonymous encounter with a big cocked German guy who came into my hotel room while I was blindfolded. I never saw him but photographed his condom as a souvenir.

Recently I had a Japanese friend stay. He’d normally use a condom but was ok raw with me as I take PrEP. When I took him to visit th3 gay sauna I gave him PrEP tablets so he could use the 2-1-1 method.

Anonymous fantasy

 I have a fuckbuddy in a city 600 km away who I don’t get to see very often. I first hooked up with him four and a half years ago and about every year since. He has a lean hairy body, very long cock and loves to have me video our sessions. 

On our most recent encounter we tried something different. Any anonymous encounter. I chose a hotel where I’d had a genuine anonymous with a German guy, also with a long cock, who I never saw. I knew that I could unlatch the door of the room and that there was no security required to use the elevator. This time it was a fantasy as we knew each other.

I positioned my iPad to catch the action from a fixed position and my buddy took some occasional shots from his phone. I lay naked on the bed, blindfolded and face down. I heard the door open, someone enter, sounds of clothes being removed, a body stepping onto the bed, a younger licking my asshole, I arch and the tongue more forcefully rims me, movement and a hardening cock nudges my mouth, I open and start sucking, a hand reaches about while I’m doing that and fingers my hole. 

More movement and I feel flesh rubbing against my asshole, prelubed it enters and slides in deeply, thrusting faster and faster.

Before long we stop the pretense, the fantasy has been exhilarating, I remove the mask, we talk as many positions are taken and eventually I take his load deep inside. He heads back to work after his sweaty lunch hour. We both look forward to the next time.

Making a new friend

I made a new friend recently. And had great sex too. 

It started out as a simple Grindr hookup on a Saturday afternoon. A young Asian guy, my type, with a nice photo and a friendly manner in his chat. He had no car and was unfamiliar with the transit so I drove downtown, picked him up and brought him to my house.

He described himself as a versatile bottom so I was a bit surprised when it turned out he saw himself principally as a top. No matter as I’d prepared in advance for such a possibility, the enduring chore and joy of a true versatile. 

His cock wasn’t especially big but I didn’t mind. We had a sensuous afternoon session and eventually delivered a big load deep inside me. 

After a bit of sightseeing we fucked again and the young guy was able, within 2 hours,  to pump another big load into me.

We chatted and found that he had arrived from Japan the previous evening on a 1 year working holiday and was staying in a seedy hostel in a rough part of town. He was just 24, the same age I travelled to Europe on a 2 year working holiday. He had limited English, was alone and I could see he was going to have some difficulties. I remembered the gay men who had helped me on my working holiday, saving me from hostels to sleep in their beds with them, showing me around, giving advice and practical assistance.

So I took the plunge and did something I’d never done before, invited a young guy to stay with mecwhile finding an apartment. He stayed with me for 9 days as we hunted for accommodation and I helped him on all manner of things like shopping, cooking, buying bedding, buses and trains. 

It was great to share meals and my bed with someone 2 years after the death of my long term partner.

After I dropped his stuff off to his apartment, shared by 10 housemates, we took a last (for the time being) excursion to experience for the first time a Western gay bathhouse. Although somewhat shy, he took to it immediately fucking eventually with about 5 guys whereas I could only manage one that afternoon. 

I’m very hopeful to add him to my ongoing list of fuckbuddies for the next year.

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Sex positions

 I usually don’t think too much about sex positions. But the other day I was fucking a guy for a long time and wasn’t sure when or if I’d cum when I changed position and came within a minute. It reminded me to take the time to get the position right.

I top and bottom in roughly equal measure. Some years more top. Some years more bottom. Only in 2022 did I top and bottom in equal numbers: topping 130 times, bottoming 130 times. When I bottom I generally let the top decide the position.

 When I top I’m sometimes asked by bottoms what position I prefer. I usually say anll of them and ask if they have a preference. Most of the time I simply start out doggy bent over a bed. Sometimes we’re both standing.

Otherwise the bottom will have their knees on the bed while I stand on the floor. If there’s no bed, like in a cruise club or in a forest, I simply bend him over a bit and come in from behind.

Typically I continue on a version of the same doggy style by moving up on the bed often bending over to get more body contact and perhaps deeper penetration.

My usual approach is then to turn the bottom onto his back with his legs in the air. This usually allows deeper penetration but importantly allows me to see the guys face and play more easily with nipples, cock and balls.

There are many variations in this position. One I picked up in South America, though hardly unique to there, is raising one leg much higher and coming in from an angle which, for reasons I don’t understand, seems to get really deep.

I’m aware when I’m bottoming of many other positions which I guess I should sometimes use. Sitting on a guys cock is one, which I’m not a fan of and tend only to use with young novices or where the bottom asks. It gives the bottom more control, usually to allow nervous types to avoid being impaled thoroughly. A lot of my young lithe Asian friends use energetic poses when topping me such as pile driver or jockey. I like these but find them too strenuous when I’m topping.

I love to end with rear entry which I find exhilarating as a bottom when I feel crushed and impaled, and a loss of control, all at the same time and almost always makes the top cum and me cum if I’m top or bottom.

Recruiting a stable of FWB

 For quite some time I’ve wanted to establish a circle of fuckbuddies sometimes, but perhaps less accurately, called friends with benefits. I actually like the term stable which seems to have a nice animal ring to it. It also fits with a barebacking theme. 

A few promising candidates for being in my stable have been found unreliable. I do have several guys in other cities who are go to repeat fuckbuddies when I’m in their town and they’re available. Domestically I have one in a city 700km away and another 1000km away that I’ve returned to 3 times each. I also have a couple of multi-trip repeat hookups in Bangkok. However, I can’t get to these places more than once a year or so which falls short of the objective. 

What I want is the option of being able to message a FB and, if available, be fucking within the hour. If not convent to be able to quickly move to the next on the list. I also want it to be mutual so that they get in touch with me as the urge takes them. 

I’m actively trying to build up my network at the moment. I’ve gotten contact details from a guy at the sauna and a Grindr hookup. This seems to be both a practical communication means as well as an implicit signal of willingness to hookup. I’ve arranged to see one of them for a second time next week. I’ll need to follow up with the other soon too to maintain the momentum. 

However, I need more than two guys. I am versatile so I need a mix of tops and bottoms to suit my need. So far I have one top, one bottom. The top is a really nice guy but his cock is only average size and sometimes I’m hot for something bigger.

 I’m trying to reactivate a guy I hooked up with 5 or 6 times two years ago, so far having him over for lunch - so he’s probably genuinely a FWB rather than a FB. My contact with the other guys is purely sexual, no tea or coffee involved. He is someone I’m fond of as a person while also appreciating his cock and cum.

Orgy night at the sauna

I was hoping for better success this time at the local sauna’s orgy night than last time. The monthly event always attracts a huge crowd of guys. It’s partly the discount for younger guys. On this night the doors to the fuck rooms are all locked open and guys only given a tiny towel.. in effect no privacy either wandering around or fucking. It’s a total non-stop bareback fuck fest for some guys although not always for me. The place is so packed that in some places you are tight against naked guys and can’t move till someone starts exiting. 

This time I started in the steam room.  On orgy night there’s always a crowd of guys standing and playing rather than the usual sitting around the edges of the steamy room. As a warm up I like to suck some cocks, and I got some very good mouthfuls. One guy kept coming back and indicated he wanted to get fucked. I tried to oblige, starting by rimming him, but didn’t get far in without lube, as the steam room tends to wash away any water based lube applied in advance and my thick cock and his tight hole were a struggle in those conditions. I saw someone sit on a guy’s cock and ride it so I took my chance when he left. The guys cock was pretty fat and hard to take although I had earlier taken the precaution of greasing my hole with a little oil based lube, elbow grease. So I’d taken my first cock of the night.

I headed up to the main cruising area which was packed with guys. Inching my way into the rooms I settled down by a couple fucking with the notion I’d slip in and carry on when the top tired. But they went on and on . So I bent down alongside with my ass in the air hoping to hook a passing cock and sure enough I was soon being fucked though not as long as I’d have liked.  Meanwhile an Asian twink had sprawled across the bed seeking some attention. I caressed his butt and he reached over and felt my hard cock, obviously liking what he felt he slithered right across the bed and positioned himself and I slid my cock into his tight asshole. I pounded away for a few minutes, let someone else have a turn, then restarted this time with him on his side to get a different feel. 

 

Moving into another dark room I felt another Asian guy taking an interest in my cock. We took turns to suck but his fingers moved to my hole so I positioned myself to take him up my ass standing, no mean feat in the crowded room. He fucked me for a while, moving around the room, till he said we should try for a room. We wandered down the corridor but most rooms taken and I had to explain to him that we couldn’t shut the door of any room . While moving I saw his sexy tattoos on his muscular arm. Eventually we found a wide unused mattress in a darkened alcove without anyone else present and he started to fuck me doggy style and rear entry. Other guys would come in and fuck alongside, and go, others would come and watch or touch, but he kept fucking away. Eventually he got me on my back legs in the air, occasionally kissing, and on he went relentlessly pounding away for over 30 minutes. His body was bathed in sweat and when his head was over mine I could feel the sweat dripping on me. His cock was not large, but was hard, and it was good eventually take his load. He gave me his number and address afterwards so will be seeking a repeat session before long regular . A fuckbuddy recruited I hope.

A favourite picture #1

 I suppose like many guys these days I have many intimate pictures taken and stored on my cellphone. They’re useful to have, since pics are often asked for when hooking up on the apps. 

Of course the videos and pics are also good material for jerking off. Who doesn’t like to revisit the memory of a good fuck? I get equal satisfaction from seeing myself fucking and getting fucked and love seeing my favourite partners getting pounded or entering me.

Inspired by a regular feature in the Guardian I thought I might select some favourite pic, often stills from videos, and work out what I remember and like about them.  This is the first in the series hence #1 I.e. it’s not ranked as my No 1 favourite necessarily. Of course since I omit faces the vast bulk of my favourites must of necessity be omitted.

This image comes from a very memorable encounter in Kowloon with a good looking slim Asian guy. A really nice guy, a bottom, who was willing to be videoed with a stunning cityscape behind. All the images are amongst my favourites but one small feature on this one is that you can see his left nipple in profile. He had great nipples that he played with when I wasn’t. 

Memories of lockdown

I write this almost exactly 4 years since going into my first lockdown in March 2020. Not that long ago but it seems like another lifetime. The first lockdown was kinda fun in a warped kind of way. Probably helped by the fact that it was summer, I could walk around the block and had a house and garden to sit in. I wasn’t cooped up in a tiny apartment which would have been harder.There were later lockdowns that were harder, including the one during which my partner died in front of me, but I’ll stick to the happier first lockdown. 

There had been inklings of trouble ahead in The preceding months. In December a conference in Tokyo I had been invited to speak at was postponed due to a fear of an outbreak in the region, later to be canceled. I booked a ticket in January to fly to Sydney’s gay Mardi Gras, one of my annual fuck fests, and was told in no uncertain terms by my partner that if I went he would not let me back in the house. I protested to no avail, my partner was far more attuned to what was on the horizon than me. 

So in March we were in lockdown. It was my duty to walk to the supermarket and queue in social distancing clad in mask and disposable gloves. My partner disinfected the groceries on arrival home. 

It never occurred to me to break the rules to hookup sexually with anyone. Quite frankly I don’t think anyone else would have anyway. Things may have changed later once vaccines were available. I do remember the ‘Cumunion’ website hosting zoom sessions where you played with your cock in front of the camera. I joined a couple of times but I can’t say it did anything for me.

I did indulge one small sexual outlet during that first lockdown. Every morning I would position my phone camera and take a snap of my soft cock in the same position. I’m not sure in retrospect what the point was, but it was something to do. 

Once the lockdown was over it was possible to hook up again but understandably people were a bit wary. In my digital ‘black book’ sexual encounters, the first post lockdown entry is 9 June 2020, which was about 3 weeks after lockdown was lifted on 13 May.

Boy was it good to get a cock back in my ass after the enforced abstinence.

Nearly a threesome

I answered a quick connect ad on BBRTS. The guy asked if I was ok with his friend being there which I was. 

When I arrived at about 11 pm I found a large house in near darkness behind a steel fence and gate. I went up to the door which was opened by a naked guy who was waiting still in near darkness. Silently we walked along a corridor to a room with the door ajar. Inside, lay a man, naked, with his ass in the air. I could see it was my job to fuck him so I stripped down.

I asked if I could video and got agreement. The guy that led me in would use my phone and film. So he wasn’t going to join in it seemed. 

Soon I had pushed into him as I stood by the bed. I got a good rhythm going while the now-cameraman was offering encouragement to his friend (“you’re a good pig”) and occasional instructions to me (“pull your cock right out and shove it back in again”). 

He was getting some good images at angles that were impossible if filming by yourself or using a fixed camera. 

At some stage to spice things up he decided to push a glass dildo up my asshole while I was fucking his friend. I took it in my stride and continued to fuck his friend for more than 30 minutes solid.

Worshipping the pyramid: a thick girth cock

 It was many years into my sexual life that I realised I had a thick cock.

As an anxious teenager I used to measure my cock. After it matured by the time I was 16 it was consistently 13 to 13.5 cm in circumference or girth. That was constant in the years I used to jot down my measurements between ages 16 to 22. 

Surely it doesn’t continue to grow after age 22 I thought. Yet if I measure my cock now it has a girth of 16 cm or, put another way, a diameter of 50 mm. My cock is now 3 cm thicker. 

I may not have noticed for many years that I had a thick cock for a variety of reasons. Maybe it gradually grew in size when I was first fucking around I was in Europe for a couple of years. My English boyfriend had a very thick cock. I always bottomed with him. I’d only occasionally get the chance to top on visits to Europe and the size of my cock was never remarked upon. 

In more recent years in Asia the size, but particularly the girth, would frequently be mentioned. 

A number of times it became a problem with petite guys in Bali, Taiwan, Singapore and elsewhere refusing to take it in their ass. “It’s too big!” they’d coo, which I knew was wrong as I’d fucked enough young and small guys to know it would squeeze into the tightest fit. No matter since I’m versatile and would welcome taking their nice Asian cock myself. More of an issue if they were only a bottom leaving me to plead about being gently, going slow or just entering a little bit and see how we go. 

It reached the point with Grindr hookups that I maintain multiple photo sets for sharing and the Asian ones deemphasise my cock size. The irony as most guys seem to crave a big cock.

My cock is not universally thick from base to tip. Rather it is slimmer at the end. One guy admiringly called it a pyramid, I use this to reassure guys that it will slip in easier. It is true as I usually only hear the groans and squeals as I push it all the way in.

The shape of my cock is a pleasure for me and my partners although it has some drawbacks. The main one is condoms. Regular sized condoms, such as at bathhouses, are too tight for me and make me lose an erection. I would bring XXL condoms with me which were better but they were too loose for the slimmer part of my cock and would thus not feel good when fucking and be prone to slip down if I temporarily when soft after donning a rubber. Hence my relief at eventually switching to barebacking after going on PrEP. 

Although by choice I always bareback, I sometimes hookup with guys who want to top me with a condom. One of the ironies for some Asian guys who are afraid to take my girth is that they top me using the XXL condoms I bring just in case. These are often way too big for them

A condom user in 2022

January 2022, I was driving through a small rural city, and checked who was available on Grindr. I hooked up with a 32 year old Asian top. The guy was on PrEP but insisted on condoms. In 2022 this was pretty weird. 

He was Chinese and spoke little English. As well as his condom use he also had untrammelled public hair which was cute but in 2022 had become unusual with most young guys trimming or even shaving smooth. He was very businesslike putting me into position bending over the bed, thrusting into me and later moving me to a better position to enter me sideways.

Eventually he came, disappointingly in the rubber rather than my hole. Strangely he never fully rolled the condom out. A big load too.

Fit Asian man breeds me good

Amongst the hundreds or thousands of hookups some stand out. This was one.

You can’t tell in advance which will be the stand out fucks. This one looked good but there was nothing to indicate how special in advance. The guy was 47. In his favour his profile was on BBRTS so he was clearly into barebacking.according to his profile he was tall, lean and muscular Asian guy.  

I was visiting a small city and had a nice hotel room with a king bed. He arrived, we both stripped and got don’t to it. Businesslike. He let me suck him but he wasn’t into a lot of preliminaries. He was here to fuck me his rock hard cock said.

He began with me bent over, first with feet on the floor then on the bed with him moving into different positions. He was seamless and athletic in his movements giving me different sensations as he went shallower and deeper and coming from different angles.

But always relentless as he continued to thrust hard. He then turned me on my back, legs in the air.

Again it was never just static pounding but a variations on a theme.

This continued for aged with various position changed before settling down to a rear entry position as him body close on top crushed mine, his breathing becoming deeper as he was close to climax. 

When he finally came he cried out and grunted for 30 seconds while he pumped his load deep in my hole. At last a smile passed across his businesslike face.

Ultimate intimacy of rimming

I wonder if there can be a more intimate act than rimming?

While pushing one’s hard penis into another’s asshole breaks taboos and creates a great sense of connection it seems a step further to make the entry with your tongue.

It takes a deal of trust to take the step, a special bond. Licking around the hole, delicately entering, wetting the opening, thrusting your tongue like a miniature cock. 

I confess that I rarely rim guys. For me the taboo is strong and I need to be coaxed or extremely turned on. I am most likely to rim if we’ve both just showered together. I relish a firm butt and a smooth hole, naturally hairless or shaved, and my favourite will be a young guy.

I sometimes get rimmed and that can be nice. For me it is merely a prelude to getting fucked, part of the lubrication and loosening phase, but without the artificial lubricants. I therefore find it unexpected when a guy rims me then expects me to top him. I oblige, of course, but feel slightly cheated.

A repeat session

It’s nice to get a satisfied top come back for more but it was surprising to be contacted on Grindr out of the blue by a guy who bred me two years ago. He contacted me first thing in the morning asking if I would be available at about 5.30 pm, so I had to wait all day which was ok as I had things to do. 

When he arrived he was just as I remembered. I didn’t recall the face but … that cock and body. The cock was thick, long, cut with a big head, curved upwards and rock hard. He was tall and beefy. He was Polynesian, muscular with a traditional tattoo on one arm.

i set to sucking his tool and after a while bent over my bed for him to fuck me. Then we climbed on the bed for more doggy before I lay on my back with legs in the air. He pumped and pumped before eventually depositing a big load which seemed to go on for 30 seconds. Hopefully I won’t have to wait more than a next year for the next load.