Sex positions

 I usually don’t think too much about sex positions. But the other day I was fucking a guy for a long time and wasn’t sure when or if I’d cum when I changed position and came within a minute. It reminded me to take the time to get the position right.

I top and bottom in roughly equal measure. Some years more top. Some years more bottom. Only in 2022 did I top and bottom in equal numbers: topping 130 times, bottoming 130 times. When I bottom I generally let the top decide the position.

 When I top I’m sometimes asked by bottoms what position I prefer. I usually say anll of them and ask if they have a preference. Most of the time I simply start out doggy bent over a bed. Sometimes we’re both standing.



Otherwise the bottom will have their knees on the bed while I stand on the floor. If there’s no bed, like in a cruise club or in a forest, I simply bend him over a bit and come in from behind.



Typically I continue on a version of the same doggy style by moving up on the bed often bending over to get more body contact and perhaps deeper penetration.

My usual approach is then to turn the bottom onto his back with his legs in the air. This usually allows deeper penetration but importantly allows me to see the guys face and play more easily with nipples, cock and balls.

There are many variations in this position. One I picked up in South America, though hardly unique to there, is raising one leg much higher and coming in from an angle which, for reasons I don’t understand, seems to get really deep.

I’m aware when I’m bottoming of many other positions which I guess I should sometimes use. Sitting on a guys cock is one, which I’m not a fan of and tend only to use with young novices or where the bottom asks. It gives the bottom more control, usually to allow nervous types to avoid being impaled thoroughly. A lot of my young lithe Asian friends use energetic poses when topping me such as pile driver or jockey. I like these but find them too strenuous when I’m topping.

I love to end with rear entry which I find exhilarating as a bottom when I feel crushed and impaled, and a loss of control, all at the same time and almost always makes the top cum and me cum if I’m top or bottom.


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