Cut and uncut cocks

 I’ve never really understood guys having a strong preference for only circumsized or uncircumcised cocks - I love them both. 



I quite enjoy sucking cocks in darkened rooms, through gloryholes for instance, where you don’t know for sure what you are about to receive in your mouth. I quite enjoy the streamlined feel of a circumsized glans on my young. But on the other hand, a meaty loose foreskin gradually slipping back as an enlarging cock swells in my mouth is great as well. 



Energetic Thai

Bangkok is my favourite city for finding sex. Asian sex, naturally.


Asian sex is just like any other. Well, yes and no. For me the guys more easily get me hard; it just depends on your tastes. I like their smoothness, the contrast of their skin tone, their relaxed attitude to sex. 



And I like their energetic sexual positions. 



It takes some strength in certain leg muscles to sustain some of the positions I’ve been taken in, and they seem to hit the mark.


A week in May

It turned out to be a good week. I had no reason to expect it to.

Saturday: I idly checked out Grind. I wasn’t planning to hookup as I’d already arranged to host a couple of friends to lunch at a nearby cafe. The profile of a young Asian guy caught my attention so I sent a ‘hi’ with little expectation. He promptly replied and a friendly chat followed, nothing sexual beyond saying I’d like to hook up and getting no rebuff. On my return from lunch I resumed the chat and he was eager but needed to be picked up which I was happy to do. 

Some great sex followed even though he had wrongly put in his profile that he was a bottom when he really wanted to top. Just as well that I’m a true versatile and had cleaned up in anticipation just in case. He was very sensual with lots of kissing but eventually he topped me with him modestly sized, but good and hard, cock and bred me. 



I enjoyed his company so had him join me for the evening meal I’d already begun to prepare. While it was in the oven we went out for an hour to walk my dogs in a nearby park overlooking the city and chatted. It turned out he’d only arrived the country the previous evening with a work visa for one year. Impressive to have gotten onto the apps so fast, it’s the sort of thing I would have done. After dinner he bred me again before I dropped him back at his hote.

Sunday: I had the idea in the morning to offer to let the young Asian guy stay with me while he found an apartment. He was staying at an awful hostel in a rough part of town, 12 people to a room with no windows. I remembered when I was his age travelling overseas on a similar working holiday how accommodating gay men had let me come to their homes and sleep in their beds to save me from the hostels I was staying at and how they showed me the sites and introduced me to local gay life. I fancied performing that host and mentor role and would appreciate the sex too. I was pleased that he was keen to join me and I arranged to pick him up on Monday. 

Unusually I had arranged to take a friend visiting from out of town to lunch on Sunday too. It finished slightly earlier than I expected and so I headed out to catch the last hour of the nude Sunday afternoon session at the local cruise club. Before I went out I sent a message to one of my fuck buddies to see if he wanted me to come over and fuck him late that evening as I had the previous Sunday.After a bit of sucking and fucking at the cruise club I  went home to shower before heading out to have dinner with my mother at her apartment. 

My fuck buddy replied with I was with my mother and asked me to come instead to his friend’s apartment where we could have a threesome. This slightly caught me by surprise as my buddy was strictly bottom whereas the friend was top only. I told him I’d need to go home to clean up but he said come anyway and we’d just fuck him.

The friend turned out to have an enormous cock which was a delight but my buddy has an extremely tight asshole, I mean really tight, and I had a real job getting my thick cock in to loosen him up for an even bigger cock. However, we both managed to take turns to fuck my buddy for an hour or so then all rested. However, it was apparent that the big guy kept on going soft. So wen we resumed I indicated with a nod and a wink that he might switch between fucking my buddy and me and he was relieved to do so an my hole is more accommodating and I’ve never had a top disappointed from fucking me. A good time was had by all although none of us came.


Monday: l picked the young Asian guy on the Monday morning and he stayed with me for 8 days while looking for an apartment. On the final day he asked to be taken to the gay sauna as he’d not been to a ‘western’ bathhouse before. It is outside the week in this post, suffice to say that his young body was in great demand.



Tuesday to Friday: we slept together every night and had a great time. We didn’t fuck every night, of course he wasn’t obliged in any way. One morning I gave him a blowjob insisting he come in my mouth after which I promptly deep kissed him. We both enjoyed it and he was cut with cum smeared across his face. A snowball I believe it’s called, my first snowball. 



Yes, a good week.



Bubble butt

 Bubble butts seem to be a rarity. I don’t go looking for them but I enjoy them when I find them. It’s mainly a pleasure to look at since I’ve not noticed that they are any better or worse to fuck than others of similar size.

Urban dictionary has a good definition: “Contrary to popular belief bubble butts are not big. They are round, like a globe, usually complement a slender/slim body, they are very tight and firm unlike the ones on fat asses.” I’d echo that. 

Other comments include “a perfect butt, smooth, round and soft. Often used in a homosexual context.” That one’s not quite on the mark - perfect is in the eye of the beholder (or the top’s cock) and the butt may not be soft but firm and tight.



This picture was of a guy in Thailand although I’m not sure he was Thai. You can see he’s Asian and slim but with the bubble butt.


This guy was Vietnamese although I met him in Thailand. His ass is even more a classic bubble butt. Perfectly round and symmetrical. A pleasure to look at.

Condom as fetish

A guy in a gay sauna earlier in the week used a condom. It’s such a rare occurrence it got me thinking about the disappearing condom. Of course normally I might decline to be fucked with a condom but on this occasion I could see it would lose me the fuck - an middle-aged gentleman looking like a closeted husband shortly to return to his wife - and things were going poorly for me and I might strike out altogether that afternoon. 

He came in me but that hardly counts when wrapped up in rubber. 

It’s rare to have anyone use a condom to fuck me or ask me to use one. I’m on PrEP and I expect most guys I fuck with are too. It is so liberating to fuck bare. It is a big change from just a few years ago when everyone used condoms. Some guys still use condoms - if I had to generalise I’d say it tends to be older guys, closeted guys or Asian immigrants or visitors.

With Asians it’s not a cultural thing. I bareback with plenty of Asian guys. It just varies depending upon the availability of PrEP where they come from (including getting prescriptions, cost and whether they live with families). In Thailand and Taiwan barebacking seemed common but not so much in Japan and Bali. I know it can be difficult in China. In Bali I remember a guy starting with a condom but when I told him I didn’t need one he was happy to ditch it. Others would allow raw sex up to some point approaching climax then condoms were required. 

It’s rare for me to video sex with condoms. It may just be an assumption on my part that guys wanting condoms won’t want to be filmed. But I did get some shots of a Chinese guy fucking me with a condom then picturing it full of cum.

He was not very fluent in English giving me directions like “You put the sideways?”.


With his beautifully natural pubic hair, huge load and half unrolled condom, I find the image quite erotic, I might almost have a condom fetish (I don’t).



The other main photo I have of a condom commemorates an anonymous encounter with a big cocked German guy who came into my hotel room while I was blindfolded. I never saw him but photographed his condom as a souvenir.



Recently I had a Japanese friend stay. He’d normally use a condom but was ok raw with me as I take PrEP. When I took him to visit th3 gay sauna I gave him PrEP tablets so he could use the 2-1-1 method.

A few days at Sydney Mardi Gras

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