Anonymous fantasy

 I have a fuckbuddy in a city 600 km away who I don’t get to see very often. I first hooked up with him four and a half years ago and about every year since. He has a lean hairy body, very long cock and loves to have me video our sessions. 

On our most recent encounter we tried something different. Any anonymous encounter. I chose a hotel where I’d had a genuine anonymous with a German guy, also with a long cock, who I never saw. I knew that I could unlatch the door of the room and that there was no security required to use the elevator. This time it was a fantasy as we knew each other.

I positioned my iPad to catch the action from a fixed position and my buddy took some occasional shots from his phone. I lay naked on the bed, blindfolded and face down. I heard the door open, someone enter, sounds of clothes being removed, a body stepping onto the bed, a younger licking my asshole, I arch and the tongue more forcefully rims me, movement and a hardening cock nudges my mouth, I open and start sucking, a hand reaches about while I’m doing that and fingers my hole. 

More movement and I feel flesh rubbing against my asshole, prelubed it enters and slides in deeply, thrusting faster and faster.

Before long we stop the pretense, the fantasy has been exhilarating, I remove the mask, we talk as many positions are taken and eventually I take his load deep inside. He heads back to work after his sweaty lunch hour. We both look forward to the next time.

Making a new friend

I made a new friend recently. And had great sex too. 

It started out as a simple Grindr hookup on a Saturday afternoon. A young Asian guy, my type, with a nice photo and a friendly manner in his chat. He had no car and was unfamiliar with the transit so I drove downtown, picked him up and brought him to my house.

He described himself as a versatile bottom so I was a bit surprised when it turned out he saw himself principally as a top. No matter as I’d prepared in advance for such a possibility, the enduring chore and joy of a true versatile. 

His cock wasn’t especially big but I didn’t mind. We had a sensuous afternoon session and eventually delivered a big load deep inside me. 

After a bit of sightseeing we fucked again and the young guy was able, within 2 hours,  to pump another big load into me.

We chatted and found that he had arrived from Japan the previous evening on a 1 year working holiday and was staying in a seedy hostel in a rough part of town. He was just 24, the same age I travelled to Europe on a 2 year working holiday. He had limited English, was alone and I could see he was going to have some difficulties. I remembered the gay men who had helped me on my working holiday, saving me from hostels to sleep in their beds with them, showing me around, giving advice and practical assistance.

So I took the plunge and did something I’d never done before, invited a young guy to stay with mecwhile finding an apartment. He stayed with me for 9 days as we hunted for accommodation and I helped him on all manner of things like shopping, cooking, buying bedding, buses and trains. 

It was great to share meals and my bed with someone 2 years after the death of my long term partner.

After I dropped his stuff off to his apartment, shared by 10 housemates, we took a last (for the time being) excursion to experience for the first time a Western gay bathhouse. Although somewhat shy, he took to it immediately fucking eventually with about 5 guys whereas I could only manage one that afternoon. 

I’m very hopeful to add him to my ongoing list of fuckbuddies for the next year.

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Sex positions

 I usually don’t think too much about sex positions. But the other day I was fucking a guy for a long time and wasn’t sure when or if I’d cum when I changed position and came within a minute. It reminded me to take the time to get the position right.

I top and bottom in roughly equal measure. Some years more top. Some years more bottom. Only in 2022 did I top and bottom in equal numbers: topping 130 times, bottoming 130 times. When I bottom I generally let the top decide the position.

 When I top I’m sometimes asked by bottoms what position I prefer. I usually say anll of them and ask if they have a preference. Most of the time I simply start out doggy bent over a bed. Sometimes we’re both standing.

Otherwise the bottom will have their knees on the bed while I stand on the floor. If there’s no bed, like in a cruise club or in a forest, I simply bend him over a bit and come in from behind.

Typically I continue on a version of the same doggy style by moving up on the bed often bending over to get more body contact and perhaps deeper penetration.

My usual approach is then to turn the bottom onto his back with his legs in the air. This usually allows deeper penetration but importantly allows me to see the guys face and play more easily with nipples, cock and balls.

There are many variations in this position. One I picked up in South America, though hardly unique to there, is raising one leg much higher and coming in from an angle which, for reasons I don’t understand, seems to get really deep.

I’m aware when I’m bottoming of many other positions which I guess I should sometimes use. Sitting on a guys cock is one, which I’m not a fan of and tend only to use with young novices or where the bottom asks. It gives the bottom more control, usually to allow nervous types to avoid being impaled thoroughly. A lot of my young lithe Asian friends use energetic poses when topping me such as pile driver or jockey. I like these but find them too strenuous when I’m topping.

I love to end with rear entry which I find exhilarating as a bottom when I feel crushed and impaled, and a loss of control, all at the same time and almost always makes the top cum and me cum if I’m top or bottom.

Recruiting a stable of FWB

 For quite some time I’ve wanted to establish a circle of fuckbuddies sometimes, but perhaps less accurately, called friends with benefits. I actually like the term stable which seems to have a nice animal ring to it. It also fits with a barebacking theme. 

A few promising candidates for being in my stable have been found unreliable. I do have several guys in other cities who are go to repeat fuckbuddies when I’m in their town and they’re available. Domestically I have one in a city 700km away and another 1000km away that I’ve returned to 3 times each. I also have a couple of multi-trip repeat hookups in Bangkok. However, I can’t get to these places more than once a year or so which falls short of the objective. 

What I want is the option of being able to message a FB and, if available, be fucking within the hour. If not convent to be able to quickly move to the next on the list. I also want it to be mutual so that they get in touch with me as the urge takes them. 

I’m actively trying to build up my network at the moment. I’ve gotten contact details from a guy at the sauna and a Grindr hookup. This seems to be both a practical communication means as well as an implicit signal of willingness to hookup. I’ve arranged to see one of them for a second time next week. I’ll need to follow up with the other soon too to maintain the momentum. 

However, I need more than two guys. I am versatile so I need a mix of tops and bottoms to suit my need. So far I have one top, one bottom. The top is a really nice guy but his cock is only average size and sometimes I’m hot for something bigger.

 I’m trying to reactivate a guy I hooked up with 5 or 6 times two years ago, so far having him over for lunch - so he’s probably genuinely a FWB rather than a FB. My contact with the other guys is purely sexual, no tea or coffee involved. He is someone I’m fond of as a person while also appreciating his cock and cum.